Anger questions parenting
When I parent I try my best to make it logical. And ready to build upon, why can the answers be no more but yes later. For example, my nine year old decided that she was going to get those new sketches with the heel sneakers. She got them through a program at her school that gets under our low income families new shoes once a year. We are not low income but this service really does help. So I find her decision not wise but not something to make a big deal over. My husband, who is there syrup father not adopted them yet, thinks it is a bad decision because none year old don't need to wear heels. Yes they are impractical shoes but they cover the basic needs of her shoes for school, closed toes, and they even support the ankles. I know she is starting to identify beauty with the things she wears so I don't she why she can't wear these. And because I did not see eye to eye with him on this he got perturbed. Next issue was about hybrid with him. Our daughters are bad at remembering to take showers, he is trying to place responsibility on them.when in fact it is our responsibility until they are ready. I don't want him parenting my girls until he get his stuff in order. How do I get it through to him. I've told him a couple times already. Very frustrating.
To top it all off, he blew up and smashed his phone into the refrigerator during a fight and flipped my sewing table up and almost hit me, if the light switch didn't nick the table on the way up I probably would have been hit by the table. We discussed his anger issue and that he needs to talk to a counselor. I even offered to do it through marriage cuddling of he needed it. But he had shown no effort to solve this. So I have been avoiding him and been pretty busy with things for the past couple of days. He is mad because he wants to spend time with me but I don't. He scared me good. I'm tingling
Thinking I may need a separation or divorce to get it through to him that his behavior is inappropriate.
Thoughts? Email me at sbmmmommy@gmail.com
